Saturday, June 21, 2008

The Hillary Lesson

I have debated for weeks as to whether I should post this, or not:

I am political, in my own small, grass-roots way and I do not want to become involved in grander (capital) POLITICS that I cannot have much direct influence upon. Don’t misunderstand me: I know that my voice can make a difference and has made a difference; this is why I fight to be heard each and every day. As Helen Keller so aptly wrote, “I long to accomplish a great and noble task, but it is my chief duty to accomplish small tasks as if they were great and noble.” I know that this is my role as grass-roots activist.

However, the more I think about it, the more I understand that this story is not about politics, not about a candidate, but about the future of our girls and their dreams. And, for this reason solely, it is worthy of our discussion and thought.

Here is the post:


I tore this article out of The New York Times Sunday Magazine back in May. It has been sitting on my desk since 5.18.08 and I keep coming back to it over and over again. It has been folded, unfolded, folded again, dog-eared and pinned to the tack board. You see, Peggy Orenstein so clearly describes my feeling as an American, a woman and a voter that I have just not been able to shake my feelings that something was just not right.



So, as my daughter grows, what will I tell her about my history as a woman, about running a business, about the path I have walked to become who I am today? What will I tell her about our past as a nation and about a time of change?



http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/18/magazine/18wwln-lede-t.html?ref=magazine



I asked my friend Sara what she thought about “The Hillary Lesson,” and here was her reply:



I read an article the other day - I will link to it - that just about sums it up. Even though I didn't plan to vote for Hillary, I could feel the misogyny all around, throughout the campaign.



Hell, Fox News has stooped to calling Michelle Obama 'Barak's Baby Momma.' Indeed.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-IrhRSwF9U&eurl=http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/feature/2008/05/27/sexism_sells/



http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20080615/ts_alt_afp/usvotewivesrecipe_080615080232

Comments

What made me saddest during

What made me saddest during the primaries was the sexism among supposed progressives. So many of my democrat friends--the young women included-- remarked that Hillary was just so "cold and bitchy."

A friend of mine said it best: somehow progressives have internalized what the right said about Hillary in 92 and now we believe it.

this was such a strong post!

this was such a strong post! Well done. thanks for being brave and bringing it up. I watched with sexism video on Youtube and boy was that scary. I live in Norway and people are definitely not so blantantly sexist here. I have lived here for nearly 17 years and in many ways I think that sexism has just gotten worse in the US since my departure. It is really sad.

It's almost too much for me

It's almost too much for me to think about the fact that these issues are still and perhaps will always be around. I went to engineering school back in the 80's and had that as a successful career for 20 years. But I must say that there was always some type of stigma about top management that were women in this field. I have a 15 year old son and I am sorry to admit that I am thankful that he may not have to face some of these challenges. But how will he think of women in his future?

Thanks for sharing this with

Thanks for sharing this with us. My daughter just turned 20 so the future is already here for me and for her and she is of age ( and intelligence ) to hopefully see through all this. We are Obama supporters too, but women first.

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